| If you have lost a child to neonatal or infant death, below are some support groups and books that helped us during our time of grief. |
| HAND (Helping After Neonatal Death) Santa Clara County P.O. Box 341 Los Gatos, CA 95031 |
| Center for Living with Dying (They have great program called healing heart) Santa Clara County ASPO 1542 Los Padres Blvd. Santa Clara, CA 95050 408-243-0700 |
| SUGGESTED READING |
| Losing You Too Soon Author: Bernadette Keaggy (It has a great chapter for husbands) |
| Grieving the Child I Never Knew Author: Kathe Wunnenberg (This book is not only encouraging but it is a journal too) |
| Mommy Please Don't Cry Author Linda DeYmaz (This book is cartoon Illustrated, my dauther who was 4 at the time really enjoyed reading this with me.) |
| JOURNAL I found that writing down my feelings were so theraputic. There were days that I could only write just a few words but just letting my feelings and thoughts out really helped me get through the stages of my grief. |
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